Not sure how to begin? This is where you start listening—quietly, honestly—to yourself. The "Who Am I?" Experience is the first step on the path back to aliveness.
How I went from lost and erased… to alive and unshakably me.
I lost myself for 22 years in a marriage where my truth didn’t matter. I had no voice. No sense of worth. And no memory of who I’d been before.
What followed was a breakdown… and then a breakthrough.
This is the story that became the formula. And it’s what led to this movement.
I don’t have letters after my name. What I have is a map I walked myself.
This isn’t expert advice. It’s a lived path. I’m not teaching what I learned—I’m sharing what I survived.
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IF YOU'VE EVER WHISPERED THE QUESTION "WHO AM I, REALLY?" THESE STEPS WILL GENTLY GUIDE YOU HOME.
This is not a program. It’s a re-meeting with yourself. One question at a time.
This is not a one-size-fits-all journey. It’s a soul-aligned toolbox that starts with the book—built to help you uncover your truth, choose your destination, and chart the path that’s right for you.
It’s a map, a compass, and a GPS—with you in the driver's seat.
› Start Here → Remember Who You Are
The Book: Be the You That’s More You Than You’ve Ever Been
This isn’t self-help.
This is self-recovery.
You’re not here to be fixed.
You’re here to be found—one layer, one truth, one page at a time. Start with the Book: Be the You That’s More You Than You’ve Ever Been.
This isn’t a book to read. It’s a book to experience.
A guide to help you peel back the layers you’ve absorbed, inherited, or built to survive — so you can finally hear the voice underneath it all: your own.
You won’t be told who you are.
You’ll be invited to uncover it — one memory, one pattern, one truth at a time.
As you go, you’ll begin gathering fragments that matter.
Which is exactly what the next step is for — the Journal is where you give those pieces a home.
The Book: Be the You That’s More You Than You’ve Ever Been
This isn’t self-help.
This is self-recovery.
You’re not here to be fixed.
You’re here to be found—one layer, one truth, one page at a time. Start with the Book: Be the You That’s More You Than You’ve Ever Been.
This isn’t a book to read. It’s a book to experience.
A guide to help you peel back the layers you’ve absorbed, inherited, or built to survive — so you can finally hear the voice underneath it all: your own.
You won’t be told who you are.
You’ll be invited to uncover it — one memory, one pattern, one truth at a time.
As you go, you’ll begin gathering fragments that matter.
Which is exactly what the next step is for — the Journal is where you give those pieces a home.
› Step 2 → Explore Deeper & Record
Go deeper with the Journal: The True You 2.0 Field Journal.
This isn’t a blank notebook.
It’s a guided structure designed to help you capture, organize, and build with what you’re uncovering.
First, it helps you plot your own course—so you’re not overwhelmed but empowered.
Then, it walks you back through the key tools from the book (and a few new ones) to see what actually resonates for you.
Next, it becomes your place to collect the pieces—the memories, beliefs, and truths you’re unearthing.
Finally, it gives you a space to begin building your new blueprint—a structure for your next chapter.
Inside, you’ll:
This is your record of becoming.
And once you start reclaiming who you really are—maybe it’s time to say it out loud.
Next up: the Tees.
Go deeper with the Journal: The True You 2.0 Field Journal.
This isn’t a blank notebook.
It’s a guided structure designed to help you capture, organize, and build with what you’re uncovering.
First, it helps you plot your own course—so you’re not overwhelmed but empowered.
Then, it walks you back through the key tools from the book (and a few new ones) to see what actually resonates for you.
Next, it becomes your place to collect the pieces—the memories, beliefs, and truths you’re unearthing.
Finally, it gives you a space to begin building your new blueprint—a structure for your next chapter.
Inside, you’ll:
This is your record of becoming.
And once you start reclaiming who you really are—maybe it’s time to say it out loud.
Next up: the Tees.
› Step 3 → Speak Your Truth Outloud
Declare it with the Tees: The Paramour Paradox Collection.
These aren’t just shirts.
They’re quiet declarations—or bold ones—that say: I’m no longer hiding.
Whether you’re just beginning or already in the thick of it, there’s something powerful about wearing the truth you’re reclaiming.
Each piece is designed to spark recognition—in yourself, and maybe in someone else who’s on their way.
Because when one person stops whispering, it gives others permission to do the same.
Next up: the App.
› Step 4 → Stay On Course
Stay on track with The DIG: Your Pocket Companion App (coming soon)
The DIG was built for the real world—where transformation doesn’t happen in a bubble.
It sends gentle nudges, reflective prompts, and reminders of what matters most… especially when distractions, doubts, or detours show up.
You don’t have to start from scratch every day. The DIG keeps you close to your truth—one tap at a time.
And when you’re ready to go deeper again, the next step’s waiting: the Course.
› Step 5 → Dig Even Deeper
The Course—The Dig Deeper Course (coming soon)
Some truths need more time. More space. More guidance.
Dig Deeper: The Guided Course Experience
Sometimes, you need more than prompts. You need presence.
Dig Deeper is a guided experience that brings the book to life in an expansive way.
You’ll walk through the core exercises—with structure, support, and soul. Think of it as a deep dive into the truths you’re uncovering.
If you’re ready to go further than you ever have in your transformation, this is the next step.
And once you’ve got the foundation? You’ll never walk alone. Welcome to the Murmuration.
› Step 6 → Experience Community
The Murmuration: A Soul Circle for the Journey Home
Soul work can feel lonely but it doesn’t have to be.
The Murmuration is our private community space, where truth-seekers gather to reflect, share, challenge, and support one another. It’s not therapy, and it’s not social media. It’s resonance. Coherence. Belonging.
Because when you’re discovering your truth, the right people make all the difference.
And within this community you don’t have to explain why you’re asking bigger questions.
Because being on this path is brave—but being on it with others is powerful.
Four simple ways to begin. Choose the one that fits you best. Or do them all for an even richer experience.
"Wisdom is the memory of experience—without the emotional charge."
You’re not alone. You’re not too late. You’re not too far gone. Start here.
